Good deals & fun.

I don't know what I did right this year but I've must of done something. I went out shopping for after Christmas deals and that's exactly what I got~ great deals. First It was walmart~ I was looking for a blow up, preferably a train or globe. A little pricey I decided on a smaller cheaper illuminated train, next thing I knew The sales guy asked if I was interested in the last big blow up train which my children were eyeing- of course I said yes. He gave it to me for $50 a very considerable and generous discount. I didn't have to reel , deal or anything. Very cool.!

I was also in the market for some new ornaments, had to replace some because my wonderful dog took it upon her self to chew them up~ or Matthew thought they were balls. Long story short Amanda picked out some really pretty- soft ribbon ones , we got pink and green ones.

The Last great deal came last night, A while ago my cell phone stopped working and I needed to replace it~ our server out of kindness and respect decided to give us the up grade fee. That not only surprised us~ but the store employees. They didn't have the one I needed and didn't know when they would get them in- so I asked about the camera phone~ they had them in stock and the manager said we could split the cost 50/50. I felt bad, but he reassured me it was okay, so I went ahead and purchased it in red. Like I said I don't why any of these people approached me about such great deals~but I'm glad they did, it had to be God working in us all. I can only imagine what 2008 will bring for each and everyone....So to all my friends and family .....Have a Happy New Year.

Hi, blogging world me once again. I want to begin by sharing this Christmas card with you from my sister-in-law it says the following:

Search no longer for the perfect Christmas gift

it has already been given to us all.

His name is JESUS

the inside: The best of all blessing is ours- rejoice
of course every year we get lots of great cards but this card grabs your attention.

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I'm here again with several reasons, one to update my blog ~ it has been a challenge considering Matthew thinks he needs to be in front of the monitor, or pushing the buttons or playing w/ the mouse. Like I said its been hard and come the evening the girls want a turn and usually I'm to tired or too busy. I have been far more active these days, I like to stay busy gives me a better reason to sleep through the night and stay sane. (lol). I've also been reading a really great book " TO Rejoice Is a Choice" by Dr. Jack Schaap. It talks about Joy. How to find it, get and keep it. It also talks about how we lose it by choosing joy robbers. He covers a wide range even using his own personal live as an example. I found it was very encouraging and helpful so far,~ I've still a few chapters to go. I've been reading lots of christian books and I've come to really like the approach of Dr. Schaap- Biblical truths involving biblical characters and they are so explanatory. He has written lots of book- This happens to be my second book- the first book was " Healing the Inner Hurts" another great title. Well thats about it for me.

I have a considerable large area I can't seem to elimanate and I've tried hard to fix it so what was supposed to a wish for you all is here:

Wishing you all Safety & Warmth During the Winter & Always.

Family

Family

We had a great time in West Virginia, On a personal level I think it was probably one of the nicer trips that I've had in a long time, mentally speaking of course. I would say we all relaxed just a tad bit more than usual and even socialized a bit more. This year we had the privilege of spending extra time w/ the littlest of nieces & nephews-all so adorable, energetic and photogenic- lots of noise but well worth it. We, the adults played different games and that was lots of fun. We did dinner w/ his brother's family Thursday, and On Friday w/ his sisters, and the same brother at his sister's house. Can you believe I actually lost one pound after big meals like these? I kept simple portions, eating for energy not to over stuff myself. I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving filled w/ love and family. Take Care.

Golden Arches Around The World

A very creative child.

I'm very proud of Amanda, who is in the fourth grade now. The teachers have been encouraging them (students) to be more creative. They have already done a project related to science, social studies and art in general- and all the children have done a fascinating job. Just today they show cased a variety of the best works that had won the Young Artist Award @ a Barnes & Noble store in Bolingbrook, and there was also a book fair that gave back 10% to the school.
Amanda's foil ballerina, that was a young artist award winner.( 4Th graders had to do a sculpture relating to a sport)

I liked this picture for the crazy hair. ( it was done by Kevin, don't know him or what grade he's in , I just enjoyed it.)

the gymnast, done by Brittany.

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Jackie had been busy creating as well, Her class/team was in charge of making origami jumping frogs and name cards in a different language for multi-culture night. and I just wanted to say I'm glad she had this experience and I'm proud of her.

Wednesday Nov. 14/2007 The children & I went to a multi-culture night @ Jackie's school. I felt bad we didn't attend church, but this was the first time in the 9 yrs I've been in this school district that they have offered anything of this magnitude. Each continent was represented and the 6Th-8Th grade students did an incredible job as did the performers. It was a really planned out w/ an assortment of things to do. A book fair, Area restaurants offered an assortment of foods to try. I'm not talking just samples, they were very generous. Matthew couldn't get enough of the Chinese rice dish and they even let me bring him home some. They had different performers in the auditorium, and the continents on display in the gym. They had the clothes, instruments and other odds & ends. A very nice evening to say the least, this picture ( originally a 5 by 7) was a freebie, courtesy of the school as a thank you for attending. Something I just wanted to share.

Hi everyone, Just wanted to share this w/ you. It was engraved on a stone along the Mississippi River when I was coming home from Ohio this past July. Enjoy!!

An Interesting Book

Hi, Sorry I haven't blogged ~ it seems like its been forever. I just didn't have much to say. In between doing the normal household stuff and feeling a bit under the weather myself. Plus the computer seems to be running a bit slow these days~ it has its moments. I've also been reading an interesting book. " Believe In The God Who Believes In You" . By Robert H. Schuller. Its a rather thick book only 297 pages. The beginning is just intro stuff but each chapter is based on a different commandment. At first I had a hard time getting into it. He asks lots of questions then sometimes leaves the answers unknown to the end of the chapter. I like many of the sayings he states in big outlined yellow squares. I'll share some. " Money gives you the dubious luxury of choosing from among even more distractions. " Enthusiasm, self- confidence, faith in God, love, are all contagious, and you can help spread them" " Take the time and cultivate the patience to choose positive, forceful words that will uplift yourself & others" " Christ honored the name of God by restoring lost honor to lost souls" " When you think you've exhausted all possibilities, remember this: You haven't." " Set aside regular times to draw close to the God who believes in You." These were just a handful and there are many, many more throughout the whole book. Of course the title speaks for itself. The main message the author wants to share and is do doubt true: That God cares, believes, loves,knows, and is always there for each of us. In two different chapters he gives little quizzes~ Chapter 1's is a questioner about who really believes , trusts, and loves you ~ even @ your worse. Answer #1 is God. and of course there are others I can think of. Chapter 9 isn't so much a quiz but describes people whom we tend to respect and helps to make us a more positive person. I know I've only gotten to where I am~ because the good Lord cares and has led me and has provided me with some wonderful encouraging friends whom have helped to me to become a better person. So to all of you~ THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU.

( Oct. 27th 2007)

The Slone family @ Konow's Pumpkin Patch.

Well what can I say~ its been an interesting week. We started out last Saturday going soul winning followed by a day spent as a family with our church family at a local pumpkin patch, it was lots of fun and the weather wasn't to bad either. It was the days that followed that things took a turn for the not so good. Before we even thought about leaving the activities

Matthew went into a screaming rampage- still not quite sure what that was all about~ lots of tears, lots of nasal discharge. For safety sake and not wanting to get all the nursery children sick we kept him home. I went to church Sunday morning while my husband did the evening service. Monday day wasn't to bad but come Monday evening Jackie came down with the flu and was home the rest of the week, Tuesday was manageable and Wednesday the other two children came down sick. As one can imagine Thursday was not a productive day~ Matthew was highly clingy and was attached to my hip, shoulder and just about everywhere else~ he just had to be touching me. Come 9 o'clock when daddy came home~ I had to do something and fast. I went nuts cleaning and disinfecting everything and by midnight I was tired out but content with the fact I had done something productive. I'm not saying it was easy and that I didn't lose my temper. I did get testy~but I didn't totally lose it. Why? I had God on my side and at this moment of time he wanted me to be a caring, loving comforting mom to a sick child. Now here we are today and all three children were home again, the early morning was a breeze for daddy was home but come this afternoon I was beside myself, The clinging returned and I wasn't so sure what to do with the evening plans. Thank the Lord Matthew took a long nap and I was able to sit and soak in a nice warm tub~ which really was re- freshing. My mom came out~ and I was able to attend " Spiritual Gifts" the theme for this months Ladies ministry @ GBC. Very interesting! and I'll possibly post more about that at a later time. I'm happy that I went and was able to fellowship and learn new things and that this very long week will soon come to an end~ It wasn't bad but a bit more than I'm used too.

So too all my friends~ Have a healthy happy week and talk to you soon.

A week of exercise & animals.

I've made this comment before on many occasions and I'm sure to use it again "I've done enough walking (exercise) to do me for the next 6months to a yr." Okay, so I exaggerate a tad bit. I really did enjoy the Little Red School House and the fellowship, and even survived the mile hike. The weather was just right out on the trail and with some help from friends, Matthew and the stroller made it safely to the end. ( Thank you Gina, James & Tyler.) I was quite surprised Matt actually sat that long~ normally he'd be going, going, and......... Hewas so excited with seeing the fish on display and kept saying" fishy, fishy". What struck me as interesting was this image I'm about to share. Its different? wouldn't you say? Its been years since I've visited there, and sadly to say The trails that wrap around the lake were closed. but it was still beautiful.

Today on the other hand, my little stroll wasn't planned for Karen & I were preparing to leave for Denise's and haircuts. But my visiting guest ( Eddie) and my very own (Duchess) took it on themselves to go for a walk or should I say run. Thankfully the corner house has big dogs (fenced in) and they kept these two escape artists busy til I caught up w/ them. Well tomorrow is the Pumpkin patch activity that we've all been looking forward too so I predict more fun exercise in my near future~ but come next week I'll either be tired or charged and ready to go. Only time will tell. Til we talk again Take Care.

Family @ the zoo

A day @ the zoo

A nice day out calls for a family outing to the zoo. My family & I along w/ my mom and her boyfriend Bob & our little friend Haley. There must have been something in the air, for most of the animals were very active today as were the vast crowd of children and adults alike. It was also boo & the zoo and many came dressed as characters. A little girl had one of the most orginal I've ever seen. A double layered Birthday cake and her hair piece was the topper complete w/ candle~ so cute!!! After getting more than enough excerise~ we all headed back to my mom's for a KFC luncheon and that hit the spot. It was a fun and complete day~ and one that is sure to gaurtee a goods night sleep. Hope each of you have a good night as well.

Awesome animal pics

Photos

Our puppy Duchess, who is about 5 months old. She's quite the character-and is really good w/ Matthew. She's had two play dates this week- her sister Snickers lives across the street and we got them together on Wednesday and Eddie came over today. always lots of fun to see the doggies interact
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Well friends, if you haven't guessed from the above pics- I purchased my family a digital camera- I would've simply used disposal but I have a bad habit of sticking them in drawers and never getting them developed- so I call it a good investment.
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On the health front, I recently downsized my meds- for all it's worth the Seroquel is working but I can't handle the 250Mg's. The doctor increased it to this on Monday and by Wednesday night I was seriously on edge- to put it mildly. They say the ideal dose is 300Mg's.- but for whatever reason its having the opposite effects on me. I'm continuing with my mid-afternoon dose and the original 150 at bedtime. ( the dosage that works- for me to keep my sanity.) I have an appointment in 1 and 1/2 weeks. We'll see what he says- he might even suggest new meds- but like the doc says "he works 4 me" so it'll be my call. I say I'm good right where I'm at so why alter it. Well ladies & gents I'm off to see other blogs and I hope everyone has a great evening.

"LOVE"

I sit here trying to figure out what poem I'd like to share next and this one, which I wrote back in March of 1989 seemed to be speaking volumes to me- so here goes.

LOVE

Love is hate / Love is wonderful

Love is something & sometimes inseparable

Love is made up of good times &

bad times too, but if it's meant to be then it can be seen through.

It's sometimes confusing & sometimes easy to understand

just depends on which & why consequences stand.

Everyone has a different meaning or two,

but my definition is as seen:

A mixture of trust, security & understanding

Love is like a combination lock , it can sometimes be picked at &

stolen right before your eyes, if you don't watch what you do

some locks are strong & endurable & lasts forever it seems

some do & others don't, but the only way to figure it out

is to stick by & give it a chance.

A loving relationship starts w/ a like & continues up the ladder

every moment you spend together, mystery add the spice

when your likes & hobbies differ, because there is a challenge

awaiting you, a chance to do something new or better yet

when you don't have a clue as to what your gonna do

Love is an experience that you'll want to take on &

challenge with all your might because one day

you'll get involved with that special someone

that will be your partner for life

so play the field & do it safely

for there is always someone awaiting you.

A poem

I wrote this little poem many years ago, and though I'm big on the believe of accepting all others in this world ~ I sometimes struggle w/ accepting myself and in penning this I think perhaps I was trying to get in touch w/ my inner self , though I wasn't saved nor married at the time I think God was speaking to me, even then that He had a plan, but the first step was actually believing in myself . I have over the years changed the title several times, but the concept has been altered. So bear w/ me as I attempt to share ~ for I know there are many out there that can relate- and after all it did come from the heart.

FRIEND

I have a good friend called she

She is the closet friend I've got

She is alot like me, in many ways

& specializes in talk, which some-

times appears to be non stop

She comes from a place called

inner, a destination well known

to all

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She needs a little self confidence

a little style to make her glare

& a more positive attitude to show

that she really does care

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She is a dreamer, a poet too

a good friend to all & that's why

I choose her to be a friend of mine

& we always seem to get along fine

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When we disagree, I feel like I should

cry, b/cause its not good for her nor

me to get into a fight, because pals

are what we are & that's how it will always

be, until the day we part, and that will never

be because she and me are we.

Kim R.

Hi there again, sorry about the long absence. It's been a crazy few weeks and I'm writing to let you all know I'm good. This past & prior Thursday I was beginning to think I was in grade school again- I had to go for psychological testing and do all sorts of goofy activities- play w/ blocks, look at puzzles and fill in the missing rotation, take a true/ false test ( only 563 questions) make up stories to picture art , and finish writing complete sentences (51) and my all time favorites : definitions and similarities (lol) I even had to take some crazy computer test ( hit the mouse once when hearing or seeing 1) . I couldn't resist the urge to ask the attending doctor " Are you trying to figure out my mind or test my patience?" That got a good chuckle. Anyway that's over and done (yeah!!!) and the final results will in this coming week- It was just a matter of getting me a final diagnosis( mood disorder) but which one. I've also officially completed the sleep study, went overnight yesterday and though I was attached to all kinds of wires, it was quite comfortable. The tech was very nice and the room was gorgeous. Oh, I decided to save the best for last- the doctor recommended ground flax seed, apparently I have a slight case of too much bad cholesterol and suggested I go on a diet, I've tried it and it's nasty- I think I'll split the 2-3 tsps over the coarse of the day - but I have improved my water drinking habits and try to take a small walk down or around the block.
I'm beginning to feel a little more like myself w/ each passing day so here's to a great week for you and me. Take Care.

Health Update

Hi friends & family it has been a while and I'm happy to say I'm feeling better. Those mood swings that I had talked about recently has nothing to do with hormones for they were in a normal range. So what is it that attributed to my sadness, crying spells and self doubt? A chemical imbalance. Was I surprised? not one bit since I suspected it along. I knew what I had to do ~it was the matter of not wanting to see a particular group of doctors that kept me from seeking that help. Well I have great news~ Another location opened which is run by a totally different association and I couldn't be happier. The doctors are so much more thorough and look at all the symptoms from all angles. I went on Wednesday for an across the board blood test and they are recommending a sleep test but that will require the family doc's permission and an okay from our insurance and I'll be looking for that hopefully in the near future. I have just completed 4 days of group therapy and have to have my final schedule by Monday. Not neccesiarly a schedule but a final decision on whether I'll do all week or just the three days- Did I forget to mention its a two week coarse? I still have to iron out the details of you will be watching Matthew and when. Well the med I now take for a mood disorder is taking effect and It makes me tired and I sure don't want to fall asleep sitting here so I've got to get going. I wish each of you a great week.

Monday ~Wash Day ~ Lord, help me wash away all my selfishness and vanity, so I may serve you with perfect humility through the week ahead.
Tuesday ~ Ironing Day ~ Dear Lord, help me iron out all the wrinkles of prejudice I have collected through the years so that I may see the beauty in others.
Wednesday ~Mending Day ~ O God, help me mend my ways so I will not set a bad example for others.
Thursday ~Cleaning Day~ Lord Jesus, help me to dust out all the many faults I have been hiding in the secret corners of my heart.
Friday~ Shopping Day~ O God, give me the grace to shop wisely so I may purchase eternal happiness for myself and all others in
need of love.
Saturday~ Cooking Day~ Help me, my Savior, to brew a big kettle of brotherly love and serve it with clean, sweet bread of human kindness.
Sunday ~ The Lord's Day ~O God, I have prepared my house for you. Please come into my heart so I may spend the day and the rest of my life in your presence.

( This was an e-mail sent by my mother- I thought it was so beautiful and just couldn't resist the urge to share another thoughtful prayer.) So enjoy!!

No News

It's been officially one week and I don't know if that's good or bad news. I was expecting a call, note, or e-mail informing me of my test results. Well you guessed it- nothing. I called of course at the height of the storm yesterday- moments before a tornado was spotted there in Bolingbrook. I can't blame them for something Mother Nature did. I fully understand given the weather- but to make me wait yet another day. I even called twice today- first call left a message second time they were closed. It's not just one day though~ but another entire weekend. I guess I've waited this long whats another couple days. So what I'm saying is no news is good news-at least I hope. Hopefully that call will come Monday at the latest- for I would really like to know how , if any of my temperamental mood swings here of late can be fully blamed on hormones- or could it even be that the depression is back at full throttle. All I know is I need answers sooner than later. I'll keep you informed- until then take care.

Mishaps @ The Todd's

Well, given the weather here lately and all that rain- The Todd family has relocated for the time being to The Lindahl's . They lost power Thursday night @10.30pm and haven't been given an exact time or date when it might be restored. It could be anytime between now and Sunday. They are very thankful and feel very blessed for having such good friends. When Kris is able she will do a post.

A simple Thank You!!

I just wanted to thank you all for your prayers- my physical went much smoother than I anticipated - It only took 2 attempts to get examined and was over in no time at all. I had a nurse practioner who was very nice and gentle which was a big blessing. I also had blood taken to check my hormone levels and will have to make an appointment for a mammogram and more blood tests which I'll have to fast for. I should be getting the test results back this week -if everything comes back good. I'll keep you updated. Have a good few days and look for an update on what my hubby did while I was away.

Trip Highlights

We'll were home again and I couldn't be happier. It was a nice time away with the highlight being the anniversary party itself. Nothing like a 50TH being celebrated in 102 degree heat. And let me tell you - the kids and there were many put a new spin on tarred & feathered. They found out the fountain not only had a spicket for drinking- but an attachment below for filling perhaps buckets. Next thing you know - they were filling cups, bottles whatever they had at their disposal to relief themselves, for the littlest ones had made a big muddy pool and had no intention of moving. After they were good and soaked (myself included- for I let my kids pour water all over me) we ended up at the playground and it seemed to be padded with Hay, dead grass - whatever. All I know it was soft, messy and stuck to you like glue. I wore black and put Matt in white and light blue, which was a big mistake because it took many washings to get those clothes clean- and lets just say his shirt will never be the same again.


It was just as nice to see a good majority of my cousins show up- many of whom I haven't seen in years- and when the girls had asked who they were playing with- and I said cousins in some shape or form- they couldn't believe their ears. It bought back so many good memories to see some- The one that stands out most- Larry. Though he is older- he always was lots of fun to see and used to pick on me whenever we visited. We even had cousins show up from my dads side which was really cool- many knew of each other- they just didn't realize they both had the same Aunt Linda. I'd say with little ones included there were about 50-100 people and enough meat to feed an even larger army because though it was a very good turn out not all the guests showed up. The Decorations were kept simple - they had the children make posters and the adults tape pictures to them- It seemed if some were just taken yesterday- when in fact it has been 20+ years. I happily snatched the one I found of my brother, father and I. The important thing is my aunt and uncle enjoyed themselves and that's really all that matters.

I'm off to.....

Missouri again.. this time for a special anniversary celebration. My uncle and Aunt have been married for ever it seems and I'm sure to have fun... giving what nuts we all are- and it has been years since I've seen some of of my cousins and friends of the family~~ I just hope they've all been invited and will attend. My siblings and I have reserved rooms at the hotel - and each of us are bringing our own families. I'll be minus one_ the hubby is staying home. We leave tomorrow after my doctor's appointment- It should prove interesting- 3 adults 3 children and it has been many years since I've actually traveled with my mom. I know we are alot alike in many ways- but when it comes to driving - lets just say we have a difference of oppion- We are going to let Bob drive!! I still haven't found my digital so I'll have to resort to the good ole disposable cameras. - and when I get them developed I'll share . So to each of you Have a Great Weekend.

On the Home Front

I had a wonderful visit w/ our family who is visiting from West Virginia. They spent the night last night all 5 of them and it was really great just to spend that little alone time catching up. My hubby made an assortment of dishes - enough to feed an army and we ate to our hearts content. The corn- on -the -cob that The Solatka's gave away - was a really big hit and yummy- as was the fried potatoes. We visited well into the late evening and that's where the fun began. Where was everyone going to sleep? They eventually left the decision up to me- and out of habit I put Matthew in our bed. They took the living room- which in my mind was a very smart move considering its the coolest room in the house. Though they left early this morning- the fun carried over til tonight. The majority of us got together again - and boy did we have some great laughs covering all sorts of things. They of course were quite puzzled- between my behavior over the weekend and today. Lets just say I wasn't in the grandest of moods then as I was today- and being one who doesn't always pick -up on a persons body language it apparently makes a big difference. Obviously the happy - calmer me wins hands down-and here lately she has been in hiding.

On a sad note Jackie didn't really get to visit as much as she'd like. We gave her Sunday off to visit and to enjoy the company. She joined her school's softball league- and this week has been busy. On Saturday alone- she had two games and that took almost all day. She played yesterday, today and has another one tomorrow. The good news is she is excited - they won the last two games.

I'd better be going. didn't realize it was so late and I hear a storm a brewing and that means the computer has to go off. So goodnight!!

What's New?

I ask this because I've added several new things to my home. For starters I got a new puppy- named Duchess- only 11 weeks old. This will be the first time ever that I will have to train a dog from scratch as I'm used to older dogs already house broken. Why? We got her where as Matthew could grow with her. She might be adorable buts it all the surprises she has left me these first 24hrs.- that I'm not crazy about. We got her a cage and will have to work on this task.

I've also recently purchased a bed-in-a-bag all patriotic colors. It was a great deal and the price was right considering I have a king size bed. And the much dreaded news- I say dreaded because I'm not really keen on it- A physical. I've never been big on anything other than being poked w/ a needle. So this will be interesting! I'll go Aug. 16Th and try my best to be a good girl- no promises. I know its due time since I've avoided this topic for far to long. I made a promise I'd go and I will keep my word. But before I go off to sleep- I just want to thank everyone for all their prayers and encouraging words.

P.s. There will be no pics for a while- seems like I have a camera bandit on my hands or they grew legs and walked off (lol) I mean seriously I have two of them. I hope to eventually find one or both where I can show off at least my dog!!

Crazy days.

Romeo Fest is here. It actually started Wednesday but we went Thursday night. It was wrist band night @ $15 each and you rode from 5pm-10pm. A great deal!! The girls got their money worth- but Matthew on the other hand didn't want anything to do w/ the rides this year. We walked around, watched the girls , and grabbed a bite. He heard me say fries and just started chanting "fies" and I couldn't resist but buying them. It all worked out a little latter- Daddy showed up and Matthew rode for him w/ a big smile. ( that child does a great job confusing me) smile for Daddy scream for Mommy what's that all about? About 8 pm. Daddy bought Matt and Jackie home- and I stayed w/ Amanda til closing. Though we did have fun - I was a little disappointed with ride selection. They didn't have much of anything for little ones and what they did have was put near the grass. I'm thinking next year they should call it Romeo/ Mosquito fest. The fest for the people and a feast for those pests. (Okay enough ranting Kimberly)

Anyway- I went for the same purpose I do every year. To chat w/ acquaintances that I hardly see through the summer months. Always lots of fun!! and to get exercise. It was a good size walk from the rides to the food vendors/sponsor tents. I did this walk 4 times. ( twice if you count back and forth) let me tell you!! That first trip had to count as a work out. The combination of the heat and carrying 20+ plus lbs on either hip or shoulder has to merit some title. ( I confess I didn't carry Matt the whole time but was walking fast anyway to catch up w/ him) and he led me to a great deal . The ROTC was selling pop @1.25 ea.- the big bottles and that was the best soda deal there.

So if any of you are interested and like fireworks- There is going to be a fireworks show this Sunday evening at 9:15 pm @ the Romeo Recreation Center on 135Th St. Til then have fun!!

I don't really have anything to say but I am excited that my brother Bill and I finally exchanged e-mails. I'm doing family photos instead of words. have a great week.

The children down by the Mississippi River on the Illinois/ Iowa border last weekend.

some photos from the zoo back on June 19Th.

Did you Know?

Were we ever excited this July 18Th when we arrived at Cantingy Park. It just happened to be a Wednesday that they- meaning men in trade-mark uniforms were on hand showing all their equipment. It was really cool- the boys got to try on war helmets and back packs, throw empty hand grenades, and they even had to pretend they were behind a wall, looking quickly for enemies, then aim for a roped off area that was suppose to be Bin Laden. It was fun and my nephews had a great time. They also got more hands-on action (see pics below). They had almost everything imaginable that was used during World War times- from guns- to what the first aid people carried and used. Very informative. I never knew that there were different grenades - color coded for use for an assortment of things. This color for a smoke screen, that color to just blow up equipment, and so on. There were several and I can't possibly remember everything. all I know - it was just interesting and fun. A great day of exercise and learning. I think - they will be there again on August 1st . They even said " every other Wednesday during the summer months and if I'm not mistaken- that's still the season.
So if you get the chance- try going for a visit. Only flaw- Matthew was to little, and that equipment was heavy- the helmet alone probably weighed a good ten lbs. alone but he did enjoy watching his cousins have a good time.

Cantingy park hands on fun

Fun in the sun!!

This past Wednesday I took my children and my two nephews that are visiting from Arkansas to Cantigny park. We had a good time enjoying the beautiful gardens, and Matthew got super dirty. He was muddy and proud of it. It was specially created for the children in mind- hence the Children's idea garden. We even got to lounge around in the shade next to the main garden. It had furniture and tables amid all the pretty flowers and you could even see the garden lake, it had a major size canopy,you could even say it was a building without walls. We did the gazebo thing too for it was next to a small waterfall- and I love waterfalls. I was so thankful that the boys enjoyed it, for most boys think gardens are girlish. See photos below and I hope you enjoy.

Cantingy park gardens

An unforgetable birthday!!

My birthday was Friday the 13Th and it was unforgettable. Mrs. Kris and Mrs. Linda threw me a surprise birthday luncheon. They had a rather large selection which included my all time favorites broccoli salad and spinach dip. Great time of fellowship and great fun!! what more could a girl ask for? We heard about the lastest adventure of Haggie & Baggie, and watched as Mrs. Patrice who did a great job guarding herself from getting her picture taken. I won't know til I see pics, but if any of the group captured her, then they were fast too. It was lots of fun- They each shared an encouraging word, as I opened gifts. My mom was able to attend too. What a blessing to have so many loving friends who are so kind. The birthday wishes poured in all weekend and I received even more great gifts on Sunday. I got phone calls from family, birthday money to use on clothes, chocolate and more chocolate. yummy!! so thank you, thank you and thank you to all who remembered me.

an assortment of birthday goodies.

Good news!!

I'm here with good news and an update on my toe situation. As many of you know I thought I broke my toe last week, as it turns out I didn't. I did however bruise it really bad. I had Karen take a look, and being an emt's wife she has knowledge of these sorts of things. I am happy to report the swelling and discoloration is gone, but its still a bit sore- but only when I put the wrong pressure on it. I would like to thank all who prayed for me- it really makes a difference. Love ya.

a few of the guests!

cake, presents, & fun

It's his day

Happy 2nd Birthday Matthew!!!

We love you bunches & bunches.

On the go...........

Hi, If this hasn't been a crazy week- I don't know what is. A run- down of the week;

Monday- went and dropped of car at Legion Auto, this time it was the Cadillac conventer- I like Mickey and appreciate his and his employs hard work and time - and they are always so friendly.

Tuesday- went and picked up said car, took several naps, went pricing swing sets as I hope to get Matthew a new one for his b-day. In the afternoon- had a small fender bender - no serious injuries- thank you God- but I did manage to either brake or seriously fracture my big toe on right foot. Did it stop me? no- only slowed me down a bit. I went walking in Joliet and to see fireworks. I was supposed to see them w/ The Todd's and Smith families- but I kept going forward and lost them. Oops sorry if I worried anyone.

Wednesday -cleaned up a bit- went to a family 4Th of July celebration in plainfield - I believe it was enjoyable by all- only down fall was the scorching heat or rather humidity. I managed to eat only a little for strength. Met several new people- friends of other guests. They fit right in- and that really warmed my heart. In the evening went to church- worked nursery so I missed the lesson. Afterwards I was supposed to go see fireworks- but by 9:30 I was extremely tired and my foot was hurting so I dropped girls off by their daddy and called it a day. The plus side we all slept really well - a first in quiet a while.

Today- spent entire day @ sister-in-laws and the kids swam, swam, and swam. Came home w/ the intention of accomplishing something but lost power- so headed to the Todd's house. Kris took us shopping to pick-out Matthew's cake and that's done. I still have lots to do before Matt's party gets under way on Saturday- but with the Lord's mercy, grace, and strength I will get it done. Tomorrow I'll be @ Mrs. Julie's and out running errands. So if I don't blog anytime soon I will update you w/ pics and stories maybe next week.

p.s. We still have 5 letters to do for letter of the week- and when time allows I will resume.- it's not that I forgot- it's I don't have the time. So til next time- take care.

The golden box

Another heart tugging-eye watering lengthy e-mail from my mother. It is very touching and one I couldn't pass on not sharing. I enjoyed it and I hope you do as well.

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A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man.

College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way.

In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams.

There, in the rush of his busy life,Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday." Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days. "Jack, did you hear me?" Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said. "Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence as he put it," Mom told him. I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said."you know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said. " He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said. "I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral," Jack said. As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away. The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time. Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every ,piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly. What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked "The box is gone," he said "What box?" Mom asked. ? "The box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was the thing I value most,'" Jack said. It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it. "Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. "I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom."

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days," the note read. Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. "Mr.Harold Belser" it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside. Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch. Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved: "Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser." The thing he valued most was...my time"Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. "Why?" Janet, his assistant asked. "I need some time to spend with my son," he said."Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!" "

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,"

Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.

1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.

3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.

4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

5. You mean the world to someone.

6. If not for you, someone may not be living.

7. You are special and unique.

8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you trust God to do what's best, and wait on His time, sooner or later, you will get it or something better.

9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still come from it.

10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.

11. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.

12. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.

13 . Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know and you'll both be happy.

14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.

Send this letter to all the people you care about, if you do so, you will certainly brighten someone's day and might change their perspective on life...for the better. To everyone I sent this to"Thanks for your time". "

Yeah, I'm done!

Greetings blogging buddies. I've missed you. It's been a crazy week of cleaning, scrubbing, and sorting, and I've accomplished everything I set out to do. I now have 1 1/2 days of freedom to relax. I admit it hasn't been all work, no play because I did do things w/ Mrs. Rose V. all day Monday. Her and hubby Joe had me over for dinner, and I got the chance to visit w/ him. He is really a nice guy but has a lost soul. I went over again this afternoon, just to surprise them . A really nice short visit, and Rose and I tried to invite him to church. He said No, which I was sort of expecting but he did invite My family and I over for a cook-out sometime this summer- so I guess inviting him to church didn't offend him that much. I truly believe we will eventually win him sooner or later, might even take Pastor Dave . We will wait a bit longer, he hasn't met Jr yet, so we will see. My family comes home Saturday, and I can't wait. So I'll keep you updated. For now though I need to to go, I'm spending the night w/ my mom and I really should be visiting her since we don't see each other as often as before, so have an enjoyable cool evening- while I'm off to socialize.

Family is......

A gift from God up above, that keeps giving its unconditional love.
the length of 4-ever because even after til death do we part, we'll

always be remembered in someones heart.

the warmth of an embrace, a peck on the cheek

helpful- always wanting to lend a hand.

a relationship, that always stays together.

an ever growing thing.

your strength and weakness.

learning through trials and tribulations

those that accept you- for who you are.

encouraging

kind

always inviting

Like Kris said " this was fun" and I join her in tagging all of our blogging buddies.